It's
true that we hold our lives very dear to ourselves. But, do we also
hold dear those traits which actually make us alive in the true
sense? As none of us would be ready to exchange our lives with
howsoever big an offer comes to allure us; why then we discount our
humanistic ideals in exchange of trifle allurements, succumbing to
the commands of our mind?
One
of the prime yardsticks that characterize a human being is
'forgiveness'. It's a trait which can metamorphose the entire
behavioral make-up of an individual. On the other hand, if in place
of forgiveness, hatred is nurtured, it severely harms the life. How
forgiveness acts as a boon and hatred as bane, let's analyze…
A
proverb says– ' The man who opts for revenge should dig two graves.' In fact, the reality extends much beyond. It is not just the
subject and the object of hatred, which are affected. Instead, the
vibrations emanating from a person filled with the thoughts of hatred
inflict threat to his surroundings, and the world at large. These
vibrations cause disturbance in the magnetic field of the earth,
thereby disrupting its state of equilibrium and peace.
Research
by psychologists has made it evident that with the upsurge of hatred
feelings on recalling past incidents, there is a parallel effect on
one's physiology. The blood pressure, heart beat rate, and sweat
gland activity increases, which certainly causes inconvenience.
Coming to the impact on psychology, when we nurture the feelings of
hatred in our inner being, truckload joules of heat is generated in
the brain, thereby upsetting the nervous system. Consequently, the
entire dynamics of the psycho-setup gets badly affected, thrashing
down the peace of mind to pieces.
Therefore,
the wise ones always recommend that when you encounter any situation
which tends to shatter your inner peace with the toxic fumes of
hatred, adopt an intelligent route. Remind yourselves that although
it is easier to reciprocate injustice with hatred, yet you will
poison your inner-being by entertaining such feelings. Try practicing
forgiveness once. After tasting its fruit, it's guaranteed that you
will never revert to the path of hatred. In this manner, you will be
the fortunate one to say, “I was doubly benefited! I wasn't harmed
by your attacks; simultaneously, I wished for your well-being! These
benefits were worth procuring than the momentary satisfaction of
hatred and revenge!”
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